It’s time to say, once again, that sometimes people are interested in exploring relationships and events in a fictional context that are really awful, abusive, upsetting, grotesque, violent, dehumanizing, etc etc
and this does not make them bad people
because fiction and reality are two different things
and most people are capable of telling the difference between them, and liking something in fiction does not mean that you approve of it in the real world, and insinuating that someone who is interested in that kind of thing fictionally must be some sort of sick abusive monster IRL is both disingenuous and stupid
so please don’t do it.